Today’s
topic sounds like a slogan but yes this is blog topic.
If you are
not a happy person at home then start behaving like a happy person, because how
much your mood is affecting your kid , you can’t even think of it. Growth and
development of your kid wouldn’t be proper because of your stress.
As a
father you can’t get rid of your responsibilities. You have to learn that
making money for your child’s future is not enough. You have more work to do
for them.
This blog is for all
the fathers out there, please read carefully.
Your mood and behavior will
affect your kid a lot. Stress not only affect your health but also your kid’s
mental and physical health too. If you are tensed because of office work or
some family problem is there, never show these things to your kids.
If you are
not a happy person at home then start behaving like a happy person, because how
much your mood is affecting your kid , you can’t even think of it. Growth and
development of your kid wouldn’t be proper because of your stress.
Sometime
a new father gets confused about the parenting, he gets mental stress. There
are many responsibilities which are new for a father. He wants to care about
the baby, at the same time he gets angry if anything gets wrong.
so always keep
this thing in mind that never behave aggressively in front of your child. Your
child can get scared because of your this behavior. Always be calm and have a
smile on your face. Because a child will learn only what he/she will see. If
you will smile, your child will also smile. so smile for your child.
You have to change yourself in order to teach your child. You have to
reduce all the negativity of yours to make them positive. Don’t ever bring office
work at home. Your child needs your time too.
They want to play with you, you
are the one who will make them learn meaning of family.
Child
gets attached emotionally to father automatically, so keep this thing always in
mind that your yelling and anger will affect your child.
Nowadays children are
more intelligent, they quickly learn everything. If you will yell at them they
will do the same thing to their younger ones.
This is your choice what you
wanna make them learn. The effect of your negativity will last longer than you
think on your child.
Always think before act in front of your child.
Make your
child a better version of yours. Spread the love and joy.
Don’t forget to Smile For Your Child.
I totally agree, I am not a parent but it is so important to think before you act and in fact that is true to life, Reflection is important :) x
ReplyDeleteThis is a great message, and a good reminder for all of us out there even if we aren't parents ourselves.
ReplyDeleteYes not only dads but mums to! Being a parent isnt easy at all but we must try to remember that the kids imite us easily so dont get suprise when you yell at your son he will yell back a few days after.
ReplyDeleteIt's so true that our kids definitely pick up on our emotions. This post is not only good for fathers, but mothers as well.
ReplyDeleteI think it's SO important for parents to be ok with each other before they can be ok with their kids
ReplyDeleteChildren are like little sponges - they take on so much and much more than we realise! This is a good reminder to think of what message we are sending them
ReplyDeleteThis is great advice not only for fathers but for all parents. Stress and anger can greatly affect children and we all want what is best for our kids.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, i'm not a parent yet but i think its true to smile and work hard for your child. Also, i think its not all about money but company as well. Kids love to have their parents playing with sitting talking with them!
ReplyDeleteA great point of consciousness for our children, and a wonderful reminder that everything we do as parent imprints on our kids. I believe that as parents, we do the best that we can, at the time, but reminders (plentiful) ALWAYS help. Thank you for being the point of awareness for the children. You are a blessing.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice - I think it goes for everyone, not just fathers :)
ReplyDeleteI think children were always intelligent. I just think how we interacted with children has changed over time. And who was responsible for children has changed as well. I do think father's need time and commitment, but I think there is balance too. A parent engages, but then they also lead by positive example.
ReplyDeleteYes that's true! We should think first because children might adopt what they see or hear.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true, but this also pertains to mother, aunt, uncle etc as well. All adult in that child's life should lead by example. Great post thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThis is a nice advice to all parents and for those who will be parents. Thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more on this. Children these days pick up things so quickly that you may not notice but they simply copy everything you do. They will start acting like you, behave like you and if you are not conscious of your actions in front of them, they are gonna repeat everything you do. Specially loosing temper in front of them is the worst way to act around them. When the moment comes they will act just like you did ! which is something no parent wants. A positive and loving environment is must.
ReplyDeleteThis is great advice not only for fathers but both parents. My parents were constantly happy and uplifting which wore off on me and I thank them for it!
ReplyDeleteI definitely respect this. We give signals with our smile that sometimes can't even think about, but it's huge for children who are looking for cues around them to draw inferences.
ReplyDeleteThough I'm not a parent yet myself I'm looking forward to the day I can raise my own child in a loving environment. "The effect of your negativity will last longer than you think on your child. " This statement is so true in all levels as I didn't grow up with my parents and my father and I never really saw eye to eye even when I was a kid.
ReplyDeleteChildren always mimic the behavior they see and the energy they feel. Special care must be taken for sure.
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